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Reply #133 letitbe_rahsia's post
hep.....adik sayang....semayang bukan sebab somi tau...semayang kena sebab Allah suruh semayang... |
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letitbe_rahsia This user has been deleted
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Originally posted by serifiani at 18-4-2007 11:28 PM
hep.....adik sayang....semayang bukan sebab somi tau...semayang kena sebab Allah suruh semayang...
yelah, tapi bertuah dapat suami yg mengingatkan  |
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Originally posted by letitbe_rahsia at 18-4-2007 11:33 PM
yelah, tapi bertuah dapat suami yg mengingatkan
Betul. Suami boleh jadi pendorong dan pembimbing supaya hidup kita lebih baik. Bertuah isteri-isteri yang dapat suami beriman, saling ingat-mengingatkan... |
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Originally posted by Reedana at 18-4-2007 11:38 PM
Betul. Suami boleh jadi pendorong dan pembimbing supaya hidup kita lebih baik. Bertuah isteri-isteri yang dapat suami beriman, saling ingat-mengingatkan...
muahahah! aku tak tahan ler dengan ayat-ayat ko ni reed... kalo sembang dengan member2 aku mamfus kena gelak! poyo giler ayat2 skema ni ha... 
no wonder ler ko minat tahap pakcit2, pangkat atuk2 yek.. pasal pakcit2 dengan atuk2 jer yang suka sembang ayat skema nasihat lagu itu... |
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lmokhtar This user has been deleted
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Reply #132 Reedana's post
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Sembahyang kat tempat lain tak leh ke, kena sembahyang kat rumah jek? :stp: |
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oo ye ke? huhuhu.. tp kalau ko selak balik la kiwi, mmg semua menjurus ke madu, n poligami, n affair n curang n segalanye. aku ingat nak cite psl sayang somi... hahahaha..
tp takpe la... asal aku sayang somi aku n dia sayang aku, n dia tak suke madu (except madu lebah) ok jekkk hidup on aje... hehehehe... |
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Originally posted by kiwimerah at 17-4-2007 12:27 PM
kalau suami ko tanya ko, minta pendapat sama ada dia perlu terima kembali bini pertama dia tu, apa ko jawab?
soalan ni dia tanya masa on the way ke pejabat agama smlm, dia tanya should he consider 'rayuan' J. Jawapan saya, saya suruh dia fikir sendiri, tapi apa pun keputusan dia, saya akan sentiasa disisi. Tapi apa yg nampak semalam, soalan2 yg suami tanya pada itu ustaz, lebih menjurus ke arah penceraian.
Saya tak mahu ikut smlm, tapi suami insist minta saya ikut. belum ada sesi bersama isteri pertama lagi, jadi saya masuk dalam bilik tu sekali. |
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petang smlm kami ambil anak2, suami tak larat nak berhantar berambil ke sekolah dari rumah nenek diaorg. So far, isteri pertama tak bising pun. maid pun dah sampai, so tak susah nak manage, sementara ni, saya ambil dulu maid tu. Meriah juga rumah ramai2 macam ni. |
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Originally posted by doreen at 19-4-2007 01:18 PM
petang smlm kami ambil anak2, suami tak larat nak berhantar berambil ke sekolah dari rumah nenek diaorg. So far, isteri pertama tak bising pun. maid pun dah sampai, so tak susah nak manage, semen ...
woit doreen.. lama tak nampak ko, bz ke?
oo.. kira anak2 tiri dok ngan ko lah ye? bape orang suma? |
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Originally posted by yays at 19-4-2007 01:20 PM
woit doreen.. lama tak nampak ko, bz ke?
oo.. kira anak2 tiri dok ngan ko lah ye? bape orang suma?
cutilah, duduk rumah, smlm pegi pejabat agama
anak dia 4 org, anak saya sorang, jadi dah ada 5 anak kat rumah tu . masuk maid lagi, tiba2 jadi ramai, oklah, baru nampak suami tersenyum . Si kakak kata nak bawa semua baju dia, smlm papanya slow talk dgn dia, tak boleh buat mama dia macam tu, weekend ni kena paksa balik rumah mama diaorg. |
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Originally posted by doreen at 16-4-2007 04:15 PM
tak boleh control marah, ye juga, tapi dgn anak2 tak pulak dia jenis pemarah. nak kata kawin bukan kerana cinta, tak juga. tapi marah2 adalah selepas suami berkahwin dgn saya, sebelum tu d ...
sy ikut kisah doreen....
tp apa yg sy boldkan tu...mungkin itulah punca ex-madu jadi begitu...
takdir tetap takdir... |
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Originally posted by slayang at 19-4-2007 01:34 PM
sy ikut kisah doreen....
tp apa yg sy boldkan tu...mungkin itulah punca ex-madu jadi begitu...
takdir tetap takdir...
jadi macamana? sya tak faham |
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Originally posted by doreen at 19-4-2007 01:35 PM
jadi macamana? sya tak faham
jadi pemarah |
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Originally posted by slayang at 19-4-2007 01:36 PM
jadi pemarah
maybe, tapi bukan sebab itu suaminya berkahwin dengan saya, dia patutnya melihat kesalahan diri dia, bukan menambah keruh dengan jadi baran. |
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lmokhtar This user has been deleted
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Whatever pun reason si madu doreen jadi mcm tu, hakikatnya laki dia dah kawin secara sah dgn doreen. Takyah lah tgk atau tunding jari kat kesalahan masing2. Kalo ko tanya aku, doreen tak salah, madu tak salah...yg patut kena interogate ialah laki si doreen.
Doreen, ko sepatutnya sekadar bersyukur yg ko dah temui jodoh yg sesuai utk ko...takyah bermegah siapa ada the upper hand and who is better than who. Peliharalah apa yg ko ada sekarang and remember that humbleness goes a long way.
Si madu doreen pulak sepatutnya take a minute and take the time to reflect on herself. If she cannot alter the situation, at least by doing some self reflection she can become a better person. It doesn't hurt to improve oneself sebab ultimately yg akan benefit from that improvement adalah diri sendiri with or without the hubby.
Cewah...aku hari ni ada mood nak jadi peace makerlah pulak...mcm baguih sgt...
Pesanan dari penaja, sayangilah diri anda mulai hari ini!
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Originally posted by lmokhtar at 19-4-2007 01:46 PM
Pesanan dari penaja, sayangilah diri anda mulai hari ini!
Betul tu setuju sangat when you can healthyly love your self baru you can give that healthy love to others....  |
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Reply #149 lmokhtar's post
could not agree more.
the man is the key! suami yg beristeri 2/?? kena pandai handle the situation.
and I always believe that there should not be a battle between wife ngan GF/the person suami ada affair. the point of entry is the suami tackle it from there...kalau gi serang GF/2nd wife...one is really looking for disaster. peace is better..there is a way if one just try. I am not just saying this because suka2 ...i pernah experience cam kak lipton etc. I never once pergi jumpa GF ex hubby I...nor serang dia..I never even acknowledge dia...semua I ask my ex hubby...he has the choice. One cannot force anything bila lelaki makin di paksa..dia makin stress makin ke GF dia etc, in my case I nak cerai sebab I felt betrayed tu my personal jugdment nothing to do ngan GF etc. the marriage was between me and my ex...so it stays that way and selesai between 2 of us.
and lastly to do not feel good because of the misery of others or the 1st wife shortcomings..one day u might just be in their shoes. |
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slalu yg aku dgr kasih ibu yg membawa ker syurga.. |
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Originally posted by doreen at 19-4-2007 01:18 PM
petang smlm kami ambil anak2, suami tak larat nak berhantar berambil ke sekolah dari rumah nenek diaorg. So far, isteri pertama tak bising pun. maid pun dah sampai, so tak susah nak manage, semen ...
kalau tak larat jaga semua, bagi saya jaga sorang |
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Originally posted by doreen at 19-4-2007 01:15 PM
soalan ni dia tanya masa on the way ke pejabat agama smlm, dia tanya should he consider 'rayuan' J. Jawapan saya, saya suruh dia fikir sendiri, tapi apa pun keputusan dia, saya akan sentia ...
bagus jawapan awak . Apapun keputusan suami, sokong sajalah, tapi saya pun tak rasa suami awak nak berbaik semula, serik kut  |
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Post time 18-4-2007 11:28 PM
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