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A saying of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu'Alayhi Wasallam is mentioned by Abu Daawud, that dreams are of three types:
(a.) A pious and mubaarak dream, this is a glad tiding from Allah.
(b.) A frightening dream, which results from the frightening of the shaytaan.
(c.) A dream that results from one's thoughts and doubts.
The 'ulama of interpretation on dreams have stated that the angel that is appointed to convey dreams is known as Siddiqun, who explains to the people through examples in their dreams. This is regarding general dreams.
If one sees Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam in one's dream, this portrayal of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam is free front the effects of the shaytaan. Sayyidina RasulullahSallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam has himself mentioned this in many ahaadith, which shall be mentioned later. Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'AlayhiWasallam has said: 'The ones who have seen me in their dreams, have really seen me, because the shaytaan does not have the power to appear in my form'.
If one sees Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam in a dream, but sees features contrary to those mentioned at the beginning of this *book or against the dignity of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam, or one sees in a dream that Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'AlayhiWasallam is ill or sad etc. or that Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam is instructing one to do something which is against the shari'ah, or which does not befit the dignity of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu'Alayhi Wasallam, this will be due to the short sightedness, weakness and mistake of the one who sees the dream.
*Shamaail Tirmizi |
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ermm sedeynyer..xpela... yg idup pasti akan pergii... |
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Originally posted by mnm77 at 20-7-2008 11:35 PM 
A saying of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu'Alayhi Wasallam is mentioned by Abu Daawud, that dreams are of three types:
(a.) A pious and mubaarak dream, this is a glad tiding from Allah.
(b.) A ...
"Asal ku mimpi, ko datang....asal ku mimpi ko datang"...ini jenis mimpi apa?
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 20-7-2008 02:30 AM 
Dear bidadari tasik.................patutnya ko ubah nick bidadari mimpi.....
i lost my wife due to high fever, few days b4 ramadhan last year and 3 hari b4 our son genap 4 bulan............di ...
bingka bro....
suddenly ...i felt so sorry for u...
losing a life partner (divorced or dead) is never been easy...
it will changed u.... |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 20-7-2008 02:30 AM 
Dear bidadari tasik.................patutnya ko ubah nick bidadari mimpi.....
i lost my wife due to high fever, few days b4 ramadhan last year and 3 hari b4 our son genap 4 bulan............dia pun forumer sini gak duluk takde sapa rasanya yg tau dia wife aku.....aku tau punnn cara tak sengaja.....aku diam2, dia diam2....cam rahsia2 plakkkk psl porem ni.........nick dia mrsIM......
2 sept ni cukup setahun dia pergi......sebln hidup aku tak menentu...aku x keje, aku x kisah anak2 aku, aku dok termenung tanya naper nasib aku teruk sgt berbanding org lain.....btw, she's my 2nd wife from 2nd marriage........aku gagal in 1st marriage and skrg aku dpt kejap jekk bahagia for 2nd marriage.....sib aku baik sbb aku ader kuarga yg support aku......anak2 jadi sebab tuk aku ceria.......tp penyu menangis siapalah yang tahu..........
life must go on......mimpi kan dia tuh mmg menganggu emosi....anggap je mainan tido......hargai kenangan lama tp jgn diabaikan kebahagiaan yg sdg menanti....hidup ni terlalu singkat utk segalanya........berbuatlah baik selalu....
Gitu kesahnya bingka....patah tumbuh hilang berganti.... |
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Originally posted by bezita60 at 19-7-2008 05:48 PM
kalo mcm tu, baik ko hargai suami ko skrg..
jgn sampai dia rasa depress pulak sbb asyik nk kene tandingi org yg sudah tiada..
u should learn how to let go..
jgn sampai kalau yg kali ni per ...
Of coz i hargai somi i skrg... somi i pernah kt xder la smpai nak saingi somi dulu tp cuba buat yg terbaik... mungkin uols xbaca betul aper yg i tulis dr awal n xbraper faham kot... ( Somi br i terbaca dairy lama i selama dgn rwah n setelah rwah pg b4 i married dgn somi br...) so bkn drmulut i sendiri yg bandingkn mereka berdua... I rs bersyukur di anugerahkan 2 org somi yg baik... mmgler karaktor berbeza sbb 2 kan i pernah tulis kami masih lg dlm proses memahami antara 1 n lain... Alhamdullilah sedikit sbyk i dh blh lupakan memory dgn rwah.. somi i kata dia paham perasaan i coz mak dia mengalami nasib sama ms adik dia berumo 2thn bapa dia menggl... |
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Originally posted by hazen at 19-7-2008 06:37 PM
Ko takleh citer naper arwah sanggup kawen ngan ko n belakangkan family dier? Citerlah kot supaya sedikit sebanyak rasa bersalah tuh hilang.... And pesal bila bapak arwah tak aderkat umah (ko maca ...
kat sini ada pembetulan!!!
1) bkn dia membelakngi kuaga dia la... Kuaga aku yg xleh trima dia... coz ms mula2 kuaga aku kenal kuaga dia bapak dia lgsng xhomatkan tetamu.. (Waktu bapak aku tgh Solat).. sejak itu adik beradik aku berat nk trima dia...
2) bkn bapak dia marahkan aku...tp aku yg marahkan bapak dia... sbbnya ms rwah menggl bapak dia xdtg n bapak dia tahu yg anak dia MATI tp jwpn nyer biarla Tuhan lbh sygkan dia (binatang pun sygkan anak) ... dek krn dok tgh gilerkn n kejar sekor pompuan... selama 2thn bapak dia xblk umah n selama tu ler xjumpa somi aku lepas kuaga dr umah smpai rwah meniggl..... cucu dia pun dia xkenal tau... tu yg buat aku sedih sgt... naper rwah yg baik tu dpt bapak mcm >>>>> ...
kalo ko suker ker bapak mentua mcm ni...?????? |
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Originally posted by manakautau at 21-7-2008 06:56 AM 
"Asal ku mimpi, ko datang....asal ku mimpi ko datang"...ini jenis mimpi apa?
Siapa yg datang? Aku ker? Macamana aku datang, bukannya ko kenal aku pun kan?
Ko ni bior betul? |
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Originally posted by mnm77 at 21-7-2008 11:59 AM
Siapa yg datang? Aku ker? Macamana aku datang, bukannya ko kenal aku pun kan?
Ko ni bior betul?
Lantak lah dia mnm77... xdi apek kan nyer... |
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Originally posted by bidadari_tasik at 21-7-2008 10:50
kat sini ada pembetulan!!!
1) bkn dia membelakngi kuaga dia la... Kuaga aku yg xleh trima dia... coz ms mula2 kuaga aku kenal kuaga dia bapak dia lgsng xhomatkan tetamu.. (Waktu bapak aku ...
...however...life ngan dia tidak sampai ke akhir hayat...and he left u...and it was only after he has passed on that your family finally saw the goodness in him...dan aku percaya yang tentu sekali mereka menyesali perbuatan mereka yang sudah2 tu...alhamdulillah...syukurlah...walaupon kesedaran mereka nie agak terlambat...sekurang2nya sekarang nie mereka dapat mengingati arwah suami ko ngan kenangan2 yang baik2 belaka...and instead of feeling depressed ngan hal ini...u should rejoice on the fact that family ko telah menginsafi kesilapan mereka...dan finally...they saw what u have seen in your late husband...
...and...whatever wrong doings yang telah mereka lakukan terhadap suami ko are theirs to bear...not yours...they are the one yang should feel guilty...bukan ko...your husband had a good life ngan ko aint he??...so why must u shoulder the blame of someone else's guilt??...
...dan kelakuan bapak arwahnya yang tidak bertanggungjawab membuat ko rasa kesal sangat2...sehinggakan anaknya meninggal pon dia tak jenguk...dan becos of this also...u chose to come visit to his house whenever he isnt around...sebab nak elakkan daripada bertemu ngan dia...but then...ko mengeluh kerana cucu dia sendiri tidak dia kenali...macam mana dia nak kenal cucu dia kalau ko asik mengelak daripada bertemu ngan dia??...
...his father pon ketika itu sedang kemaruk bercinta...sehinggakan lupa tanggungjawab...lupa rumahtangga...lupa family...something yang tidak asing lagik kan??...cerita yang hampir setiap hari kita dengar terjadi kat si polan nie dan si polan tu...and becos of sikap dia ( your father in law) ramai orang yang terluka dan merasa benci ngan apa yang dia lakukan....termasuk ko jugak...menyimpan perasaan benci...dendam dalam hati ko wont do u any good...it will only hurt u further and make u miserable...
...so...nasihat aku...udah2 lah tu...let go of the past and move on ngan your life in this present time with your present husband...buang yang keruh...ambil yang jernih...be magnanimous and forgive your family and your father in law for whatever wrong doings yang telah mereka lakukan terhadap arwahnya dan jugak terhadap ko...cubalah to rekindle good relations ngan mereka...especially ngan father in law ko...let him meet his grandchild...moga2 dia dapat menebus kesalahan dia terhadap arwahnya melalui his grandchild...
...whatever skeletons in the closet...let it go...the weight of the world is not on your shoulder...let it go...
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Originally posted by blackmore at 21-7-2008 12:08 PM
...like ive said before...what is past is past...what happened between ko ngan arwah laki ko tu dah berlalu...perkawinan ko yang pertama nie mendapat tentangan dari keluarga ko kerana perbuatan b ...
tQ 4 advice...
mmg aku dah cuba pujuk hati aku ni... bln 5 lalu aku jengk xMIL tup tup.. xFIL kua bilik lalu tanpa sebarang kata... ms tu aku tgh mkn xperasan dia lalu blkg aku.. selesai mkn br salam tp aku ntahlah... perasaan aku bercampur... anak aku pun dia xpegang inikan pula nak cium.. yelah ms dia dpt jmp anak aku pun ms umo 3 bln skrg anak aku dh 6thn... langsg xada rs bersalah.. bkn aku xbw anak jumpa mereka tp XFIL br nampak jln ke rumah thn ni... hampir 5th br blk... salah aku ker dia xkenal cucu dia.. XMIL kata bapak malu n terkejut agaknyer dah ada cucu n dh jd datuk dia pk muda lg... sepatutnya selpas arwah mggal anak aku dibawah tggjwb mereka coz anak aku pompuan ni x aku blk yg jg mereka wlpn aku duduk jauh... lepas arwah menggal jika ada sebarang masalah kat KG XMIL aku yg selsaikan ( duit belanja aku yg tanggung)... mana dia lelaki yg mnjdi ketua dlm umah tu... mmg kuaga aku marah coz xpernh sesape walpn pihak rwah menanyakan susah atau sakit aku.. mane aku nak byr umah kereta keperluan anak dn aku sendiri..(nasib baik kuaga ada menbantu..) aku xpernah nak mengeluh semua itu... Kalau betul XFIL rs bersalah kenapa dia xdtg jenguk cucu dia... sampai laa niii...
* Mmg ler ms nk kawin kuaga aku tentang (kecuali mak aku) n dup lepas jd somi aku bapak aku trima cuma 2 3 org adik beradik jer yg x ok..* |
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Reply #87 bidadari_tasik's post
Manalah ku tau bapak mertua ko camni kalau ko tak citer kalau ko citer suma orang dalam forum nih fahamlah... |
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Reply #91 bidadari_tasik's post
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off topic...boleh tak tulis dlm bahasa sms...nak baca tapi banyak ku tak paham |
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sabarlah tentu puan bahagia dgn somi br kan... hii bertuah ler badan... 2 2 somi pun baik... harap2 kekal hingga akhir hayat...
** aper petua dpt pucuk Muda** jgn mare ekkk... |
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sabarlah tentu puan bahagia dgn somi br kan... hii bertuah ler badan... 2 2 somi pun baik... harap2 kekal hingga akhir hayat...
** aper petua dpt pucuk Muda** jgn mare ekkk... |
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speechless....isk..bersediakah haku kalo nak menghadapi segala kemungkinan cam panggilan alam ni.. |
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sedihnya....
tak pernah pulak aku terfikir benda ni.... adakah aku kuat utk menghadapi benda2 camni? |
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nie bukan setakat somi ninggal dunia nie... byk sebenarnya issues nak bincangkan.
citer abt somi passed away nie cuma sikit je... actually ada yg lebih besar dr nie. |
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Post time 20-7-2008 11:35 PM
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