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Originally posted by hzln at 21-6-2008 12:48 PM
Ada sebab-ada musababnya setiap benda tu. Tapi sebab nombor wahid, tak takut Allah. Ikut nafsu, nama pun pompuan ada sembilan nafsu kan....adaaaa saja menda yg tak cukup. Yang lelaki yg berskandal dgn isteri orang tu pun sama jugak tak takut Allah. Yang si suami yg dicurangi tu ada banyak kategori lah, ada yg tatau langsung isterinya tak puas hati dgn dia, ada yg tahu kelemahan sendiri tapi tak cuba baiki, ada juga yg tau bininya curang tapi tak buat apa sbb dia pon curang juga.
tak takut TUHAN..........period. |
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Reply #303 galagata's post
yeahhh...that's what i heard and read...both are forbidden. but according to some, masturbation is a minor zina, both are sinful, only the degree of seriousness is different...and i've read somewhere that zina mata layan2 porn tu semua lagi teruk hukumnya dr self-service, self-service lps layan porn...itu laaagiiiii lah. |
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Salam.... dorg sj2 nk test power kot....... |
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Berbalik kepada agama 'Tiada sesiapa yg boleh menghalalkan yg haram dan mengharamkan yg halal' Dosa tetap dosa.
Cuma yg sgt di kesalkan adakah suami patut di salah 100 peratus kerna kecurangan si isteri?
Adakah kerna si suami tidak memberikan contoh tauladan yg baik seperti
membenarkan/ merelakan kemasiatan mata,hidung,telinga, tubuh badan berlaku ( blum lagi berzina)
Tidak mengimamkan bila tiba waktu semayang?
Semayang tapi x penah pegi masjid berjemaah?
Jarang Mngaji?
Memberi isteri kebebasan dan kerpercayaan yg maximum
Melengahkan waktu semayang
Sekiranya smua faktor diatas di lakukan dgn baik adakah si isteri masih lagi curang? |
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Originally posted by hzln at 21-6-2008 12:48 PM
Yang aku tak paham, stgh isteri2 curang ni, suaminya taknak ditinggal, boipren pon takmo ditinggal, apa kesudahannya?
a'ah yek.. ape kesudahannya ye? |
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Originally posted by kuehdonat at 19-6-2008 14:23
apa pun zaman ni aku tgk ramai wanita curang sbb terpesona dgn kekayaan lelaki lain..this is a fact that u guys cant denied.penah t'jadi kat 1 of my fren yg lakinya mmg digilai ramai wanita esp.牋... ...bukan nak deny...tapi aku rasa soal terpesona ngan kekayaan lelaki lain is not so much the reason as to why these married women berlaku curang...cos...kalau pon laki mereka tidak kaya tapi masih mampu tuk memberikan atau menanggung their family expenses...then they have no reason to terpesona dan mengejar lelaki爇aya爄tu...
...faktor utama kenapa married women nie tend to cheat燼dalah sebab爉ereka燿ahagakan rasa燾inta..dahagakan belaian kasih/manja dan jugak kerana mereka rasa yang爉ereka kurang dihargai...all these sepatutnya suami mereka yang berikan...but...kalau suami tak menghargai mereka...tidak pay attention or give them the love yang dorang damba kan...then...dont be surprise kalau mereka berlaku curang bila someone else pays more attention to them...
...u can say that mereka curang kerana they are looking for something yang pasangan mereka tidak dapat berikan pada mereka...mereka berlaku curang kerana someone else makes them feel yang mereka nie istimewa dan penting...much needed and wanted...
...tell me...if your husband takes u for granted...doesnt make u feel special or appreciated...makes u feel as if u are only there for taking care of the children...housework and sex...wouldnt u燽e tempted bila ada lelaki lain yang datang kat ko dan start to give u all the attention that u have wanted...yang bisikkan kata2 manis dan indah ditelinga ko...yang makes u feel that u are being appreciated...and most of all...makeing u feel so damn special and beautiful...i say...wouldnt u be tempted??...
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Originally posted by ctjon at 11-6-2008 03:52 PM
Apa punca isteri curang? Knapa perkara ni seperti dah menjadi trend dlm masyarakat kita? Kenapa suami gagal menangani masalh ni????
sbb2 isteri curang:-
1. x takut tuhan
2. xde didikan agama / moral
3. dah mmg keturunan jahat
4. xde maruah
5. akai tadak
6. perasan bagus
7. kuat napsu
8. masalah mental
9. materialistik
10. lupa diri
11. dll
sbb2 suami gagal:-
1. sbg ketua tp x aplikasikan landas2 islam
2. bodo2 alang
3. gagal jlnkan tanggungjwb sbg ketua keluarga
4. gatai jgk, suker pasang pompuan
5. x bg nafkah zahir & batin
6. laki pun keturunan jahat (sbb laki jahat jodoh nyer pompuan jahat jgk)
7. lupa diri (bini bengang cari lain)
8. masalah mental
9. dll |
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Originally posted by galagata at 25-6-2008 10:17
and for all the wives who may be experiencing this scenario with their other half, they may also wish to know of the fact that there will always be opportunists(males) out there lurking...rea ... ...and please be warned too...these male opportunists sebenarnya bukanlah hebat sangat...kebanyakan mereka - jantan lemah mental... |
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Reply #314 1n2o1r's post
aku rasa bab2 cam didikan agama tuh paling karat pun mesti ada...
ni tak lain tak bukan mmg masalah lemah pendirian |
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Reply #315 blackmore's post
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kebanyakkan yg bagi komen lam nih tak penah rasa mcm mana dri di khianati suami, tak penah rasa diri jadi hamba pd suami, sentiasa cukup kasih sayang,belaian pendek kata yg dok bago komen nih dlm fmly dia sempurna dan tak der masalah..
cuba kita pk bila kita dok di tempat org cureng ni..entah |
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